bonesie asked: To Anon: It's not abuse/harm if it's between two consenting adults. If I had a quarter for every girl that liked things rough in a fun consensual way, then... I'd have a BUNCH of quarters. It's really common actually. Honestly, I'm sorry to hear about your parents, and I get it, I really do. But please don't compare consensual kinky sex to actual abuse, it's not the same and that attitude is actually kinda dangerous because it leads to ignorance about kink, which leads to lack of safety.